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Hinkaku ( Attitude
of a Champion)
By Prince Loeffler
Having been in Karate
for so long it never escapes me to come across that one person who
can't accept losing in a tournament. They drone about it constantly,
protest the score, or blame the loss on referees, or anything other
than themselves. They just can't deal with the fact that they didn't
win.
Only few karate-ka have
a fundamental comprehension of the concept of losing gracefully.
Losing is a small but equally important component of Karate
training. Looking at football, soccer, or any other sport in the
west, how many post interviews do you see on TV where "losers" point
the blame everywhere else but themselves?
In Budo this kind of
attitude is a shameful quality for those who profess to follow the
way of Karate and Bugei. Furthermore, this behavior and conduct is
considered very unbecoming for a karate-ka.
When a kyudoka misses
his target in Japanese Koryu, he does not blame his arrow and bow,
or his sensei for faults, rather he looks within himself and
discovers his own weakness for missing the target. He seeks to
practice twice as hard and polishes his technique with sincere
effort. Losing becomes a way to remind this kyudoka that more
practice is needed.
Negative talk is very
common amongst competitors who lose at tournaments. "I doubt I could
ever be that good!" or "I hate tournaments because the judges suck!"
With this disparaging attitude a karate-ka has already been defeated
in the war before the battle has even begun. Once he plants a seed
of negative attitude recovery is near impossible. Personally, I
would not want a student or sensei with this type of cowardly
attitude.
Referees and judges are
often the frontline of the competitors discontentment when it comes
to losing the Karate shiai. Excuse after excuse surfaces when one
loses at the competition. I hear many comments such as "that green
belt had a horrible kata but the judges gave him a higher score than
my flawless kata!" or "that referee gave points to the yellow belt
who can't seem to fight his way out of a wet paper bag!" Not all
judges and referee's are perfect, but most important of all is that
competitors should remember that they are not perfect themselves.
One of the most elusive
lessons of shiai in tournament is the ability for practitioners of
karate-do to handle seemingly unfair evaluations. Life is full of
harsh criticism no matter where you go and what you do, but you can
always improve.
The bottom line is that
losing with dignity is as significant as winning with grace. While
most of us think losers tend to fade into obscurity, the reality is
karate-ka who lose with dignity are remembered in a more respectable
and dignified manner than those who lose in a petty and vengeful
fashion.
About the Author:
Prince Loeffler is the Shugyokan Shorin Ryu Dojo head instructor. He
is a Yudansha under Takashi "Art" Ishii of the Sho Tokyo
Matsubayashi Ryu Dojo. He can be contacted at: Shugyokan Shorin Ryu
Dojo, 310-590-7249,
www.alljapankarate.com
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