ok i have a question for you guys,.(and girls),. in quite a few of the techniques that i've learned,. for instance,. ( and i don't know the names) but when someone grabs your wrist,. and you break thier balance, and proceed to throw them,. couldn't the just let go of your wrist as soon as thier off balance?,. i mean ,. wouldn't that be thier first reaction?or if the grab your coat/shirt,. and you proceed to start to throw them,. again what if the let go before you can grab them with both hands?,. or what if the tense up first?,. i guess i'm just questioning the effectiveness of what i'm being taught,...what are your takes?